Saturday, April 10, 2010

Things Married People Say to Singles






hye! i got something while i'm blog-hoping...
well, i finish my report n this is weekend!!
got many free time...
here what i found in one blog...
kinda interesting coz most of my frens is single...
me? am i single?? let just keep it as e secret...hahaha...


My roommate and I always joke about the things married people say to make singles feel better for being, well single. Though they have good intentions, in reality most of the advice doesn't really help. Don't stop giving advice however, if you have good advice to give. You will know that it's not good advice if it sounds at all like the following list I've compiled of "Things married people say to single people." If you find yourself spouting off any of these lines to your single friends, please, for the love of them, STOP.

1) You'll find someone if you just stop looking.
--Oh really? THAT'S why online dating sites are so popular and relatively successful. Because no one using them is looking!

2) You have to be happy with yourself before you can be with someone else.
--Ok while yes, you have to be happy enough being single that you won't go for any loser that comes your way, I'm sorry, it's relatively impossible to be like, totally happy about being lonely at night, or going on the umpteenth bad date of the year. The only reason married people say this, is because they forgot what it felt like. I'm convinced.

3) If I weren't married, I'd be totally happy being single.
--That is just false. False, false. You're married. How would you know? If you were really that happy single, you wouldn't be married. Just saying.

4) God has to be enough for you
--PLEASE! Yeah, in an ideal world. But God made us for companionship, plus this line makes me feel like I'm a horrible Christian for not wanting to be single my whole life. Don't ever use this line. Thank you.

Now I realize there is a some truth in all of the above lines. And no, being single is not all that bad really. But it will be if people continue to throw bogus lines at me. If I've missed any other lines, please let me know. I am eager to add them to my collection.




i feel like respon to those question..maybe soon...i'll update later...

14 lovely people:

deli said...

setuju no 2, heheheheeh, ko bile? jgn tg lelame n jgn biar org tg lelame ok.

cik M said...

hhehehehe...masalahnye...babak tunggu menunggu ni tade lg...

jeenox said...

im happy if im married, but rite now im happy being single :)

cik M said...

single is simple... double is trouble...

Anonymous said...

smpai masa nnti kawin la...

cik M said...

benar!!! tp anonymous, please tinggal name len kali k...

Iji said...

as for now i love being single.. may b kawan2 zat smuanya single kot,, kalo2 semua dah not single, zati baru la kot rasa x best single heheheh.,

tapi skarang saya happy!

cik M said...

hehehe..... unnie masih gumbira single walaupun kwn2 unnie ade yg da kawen....

Anonymous said...

AAH
i pn gembira gak wlupn x kawin lg...huhuhu

cik M said...

hehehehe... yes!!! i like!!! mari kite membahagiakan diri dgn kesinglelan kite!!!


~double is trouble, single is simple~

Anonymous said...

AAH
tp klu i dh kawen,lg i gembira...hehehehe

cik M said...

adeyh!!! kawen de tanggungjawab...

Anonymous said...

AAH
tnggungjawab tu lah yg mematangkn diri kita...t0l x zati????hehehe...

cik M said...

ye la sgt!!

 
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